" Ask Me" Advice Column

Give yourself something that you could do on Mondays. Usually you can talk to other employees and listen to your ipod. NO…. there is other things you can do like reflect on the day before. Talk about what you did the night before try finding something to reflect on. When you reflect you learn about your ins and out. I always try to get people to look at their ins or outs. People don’t reflect anymore so they hold their emotions in side. One of the best things you can do is go over your day before or prepare for your day later on what you going to do when you go home or what you did yesterday during lunch. Things like that can be that type of BORING TIME to turn it into a self reflection

Have fun work is work but who said you cant have fun doing it. Take the hard things and make them positive. You looking at this job as a difficult task no its not difficult. People got to figure out their jobs. Find where you stand in your position think about what you could be. Top of the job fair be the lead role the manger even the boss. Things like that will make you work 10 times harder because you got motivation. When you work hard you play harder. You end up losing your job your money and you self respect. When your not working hard.

You may thought this was going to tell you to do this do that. The answer to that is simply NO. This is the honest truth and only the truth.  The fun has nothing to do with the work. That’s why you there in school college or the job force your there to work not play around you know why. Because there is people who doesn’t have a job. There is somebody out there that been laid off and haven’t gotten a job sense. They was unlucky and they could had a job and you worrying about what you cant do your bored it’s a slow Monday. Be thankful of what you got and not what you can do. Everything you wanna do you can do at home think about that at home not now. Appreciate everything you was given because tomorrow it can be taken away.

Last thing that I can say is appreciate getting up today on a Monday. Because not everybody got something to get up too. Not everybody got a damn thing to look forward too. Some people may no longer be with us today and not be able to go to work or to do something. Thank god for every day that you got, Thank him for everything that you are given because it can always be gone tomorrow. If anything try to get through it and make it the best you can because it goes by as fast as it possible could and tell your self you only got a few more days left until Friday.