" Ask Me" Advice Column

Are you feeling like your in a relationship and the same results you putting in you aint getting out. Love isnt a one way street. Are you trying work things out and met this person half way and they aint traveling the same miles for you. Well sometimes you end up in a bump in the relationship which can cause chaos. Sometimes we want the best and we get into relationships that turn sour. That could ruin many bridges but you over coming it climbing over the mountains of a troubled relationship.

This isn’t a choice you wanna make you need to let this go. Staying and holding on is only going to hurt you because this person doesn’t feel the way you feel. You attempting to go the extra distance and your doing all this for somebody who just clearly don’t accept or love you back. If love doesn’t love you back you need to realize that somebody is good enough to love you the way you should be loved. Its not who we love its who loves us back. If this is person confess to you that they don’t love you, you need to love yourself to know that this isn’t going to work out. Yes moving on is going to be hard moving on is one of the difficult stages in a persons life.

Because you got to relearn the basics in life in a new relationship. Yea there will be more roads you go down that will have bumps and have cracks and dead ends but it’s the point that your traveling your journey. Its about your life and sometimes life don’t deal the cards you bet. Its just how to figure out what steps to take from there. But the first advice you honesty need is to leave before you can do anything.

Get yourself of out of that situation and move on. After you move on it’s a new journey you can go through you can rewrite your story. I mean once you realize its not meant for you to be in and you got on other choice but to pick up the pieces and rebuild your castle. Realize that your strong with this person or without them. Your self esteem will go down and you will feel like some day’s you cant make it. But the point of moving on is to recover.

You got to recover from your mistakes from your wrong choices it’s the forgiveness that you going to have to deal with next. Forgive that person its hard to forgive them after hurting you but you got to forgive them so you can move on. If you don’t forgive them you going to be reminded of this person and they going to continue their life and not ever give any type of feelings towards your heartache. To be loved you got to love yourself. And once you love yourself everything else will happen.