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Dating tips don’t come off easy, Sometimes you got the tips but don’t know how to perform the act. It comes off cheesy and you look cheap in many ways. Well sometimes you don’t and shouldn’t feel that way. Looking at unprofessional dating tips can also make you look silly because they aren’t giving you the in guide to doing these hints and tips and things they explain. Well ima give you some good advice you can now either take it and use it or completely ignore it. That’s on you im just going to put my input on how things should go as in dating tips 101.

First off when your on a date you should always introduce yourself to the girls/guys parents. To show that you was raised better then that. Many times you go on a date the person blows the horn and you wait outside well that isn’t a good example of manners and it’s a short way of communicating with your date. You should always come off as worthy somebody who is trust worthy and will have nothing but respect for the person they taking out. Greet with a hello and your name. You should never start off saying is so and so there NO.  that shows that you don’t acknowledge the person who answered the door. You take the time and you introduce yourself.

On your first date DO NOT kiss him/her right away NO never do that because that comes off as desperate. One thing you shouldn’t do is go in when your leaving your date or dropping them off. (This is strictly for the men only this part). Never kiss her on the first date. In movies your see that your hear well did you get a kiss. NO don’t go for a kiss but at least go for the question of taking her out again. Now Ladies when he asks you on another date make sure you approve ahead of time. Never say yes to anything that you wont be committed too that comes off as stuck up and be seen as a way of a turn down point.

When your on your date never ask short ended questions and give short term answers. That’s a big mistake you don’t want to look shy or nervous it shows more then you notice. You should at least flirt with the person to come off as able to do things. Most of the time when your taking to somebody and you say short and useless things it makes you look simple minded. Simple minded people don’t get far when it comes to dating because they don’t know how to communicate. When your Communicating you should always at least talk with some type of knowledge and some type of maturity.

 When I met somebody the first time I don’t wanna hear about yourself. NEVER SPEND THE WHOLE TIME SPEAKING ABOUT YOUR SELF. That can turn somebody off and it comes off as selfish and it shows that you do not wanna get to know the other person. When dating you should always show interest in getting to know a person instead of spending time on yourself. One thing that you can get a habit of doing is extracting them by making them feel as if they need to be on your level. You shouldn’t have to force a conversation it could come naturally.

Now Usually the girls are shy on dates so if the guy is shy also shell just feel awkward try communicating on things the person likes. If she likes music talk about music if she likes movies talk about ect. It should be a stable conversation and it shouldn’t be a drawn out conversation. Always be a gentlemen and females always be a lady. I'm guessing that finding out somebody’s personality is quickly noticeable. So time is always important always do right timing make sure it’s a special moment or worth remembering.

Another thing when dating is that you wanna be confident girls like confidence in guys, And guys like girls who can have some type of confidence in them as well. Ask them about themselves and input some things about yourself that are on similarities. It is always good to find similarities in people.

There is many tips on dating but these are the  basics and with basics you don’t so much just keep it to the regular. Hopefully your dates go well and you end up a match and some how gain a relationship out of it. Good luck!!!