" Ask Me" Advice Column

Usually when somebody likes us we get a certain vibe around that person. They could either be giving you the eye or giving you sign languages which usually is straight give away. But sometimes there is a few people that you just don't know maybe its a mix signal maybe its just mistaken for them liking you. There is so many ways to finding out the signs that somebody liking you. Ima give all these signs out my personal experiences from both sides of the border. Alot of times we just wonder things but honestly they don't be what we expect. But if you sense any of these signs then there is most definitely a way to finding out that this person likes you.

If you like somebody they will be focused on you and pay as much attention to you as possible. If they wasn't interested in you they wouldn't be so consistently on you day in day out whatever type of situation your in and place setting your at around this person. So lets say the person is right there sitting in front of you and they are looking at you when your speaking thats a instant sign. The eyes have it all and if the person wasn't interested they wouldn't be digging into your face every word you spoke. And they would be giving other people more attention then they was giving to you.

Main way of telling that somebody likes you is eye contact. Not just any type of eye contact but its more dept. Usually the eyes get wide and dilated. Remember this the eyes is the window to the soul and your eye contact will speak for itself. the bigger your dilates get the more excited you get to see something. So when they eyes are like bug eyes towards you they are interested keep observing them.

Females usually bite their lips gently or run their tongue along side of their lips to show that they find you interested. Some girls even change the way they talk to you to a more shy or soft spoken when flirting. Usually guys will tend to play around tighten the mouth or speak with a little base then usual. They tend to speak in a way to attract the opposite sex which tends to be a different more meaningful then the way men would speak to their friends.

hair is a large roll when flirting or showing interest in somebody. usually a female will fiddle and play with her hair and that is a way to show you that not only they interested but finds you appealing or worth speaking to on a different level. Guys usually run their hands through their hair. most guys don't twirl their hair and if they did it could be a sign of boredom or distraction from you. Sometimes the hair sign doesn't really be a sign because you cant tell what somebody feel because of a action specially playing with hair.

girls keep their hands and arms closed or crossed which is a normal sign not towards you but in general. It could be a clear indication that she's not feeling comfortable. Arms away from her are less defensive. If the woman leave her wrist-up, its sort of a "I trust you" motion which can be a easy indication that she might find you a friendly person that she may talk to on a regular basics.

Usually these signs are just wondering ways but don't just go by them. I think that when somebody likes you they will either tell you or ask you out. But sometimes thats not the case and they may find it hard to approach you some maybe you might wanna approach them. Approaching could cause distraction and nervousness towards each other. That is the reason why they haven't expressed to you or told you how they really feel. You shouldn't approach somebody any type of way, That could ruin the whole process of asking somebody out. If they always talk to you and you feel like they keeping something from you or hiding something that is your intuition.

Intuitions are senses or signs of things that its a natural instant. Many times your intuitions should be right but also they can come off wrong. Before you go into the whole questions "Do you like me" type of thing. You wanna figure out your intuition and what is making you feel this way about this person. When you feel certain ways they usually signs for you to figure out. Once you figured them out you should start a conversation.

The conversation between you and this person should only indicate short subliminal messages. Like ask them if they are single, who are they talking too. I would try joking say im in a relationship, Once you say this look at their body language and facial expression. If they seem uncomfortable then maybe they really do like you. If they seem like they could care less then that means they more likely not looking at you that type of way. Tell them you was joking and ask them a question and tell them to be honest. This is the breaking the ice point you either do it or you don't and never find out the truth.

When your breaking the ice you wanna not break it right away you wanna figure it out first. ask them if they liked you short to the point. That may be difficult but thats not the breaking point, thats just confirming your questions of them. They will more likely to play it off or to say yes or no. At that point its out there and you letting them know that you know and you just wanna find out. Things are questioned and things can finally be answered. NOW if you like them you could ask them to go out or you can just simply leave it at that. But I would at-least try to speak to them on a serious level. After that let things go or let things take its progress and hopefully the best to you.