" Ask Me" Advice Column

Rejection can come off as one way or another... Many of us have already dealt with rejection... but some people don't know how to take it well and will keep trying.... the first step to rejecting somebody is nicely explaining to them that you have no interest in them.. NONE NOTHING AT ALL. When you are being nice and soft spoken and kind explaining to them you don't want them they, end up just pushing your kindness for honesty which they don't get what no meant.

After explaining to them that you dont want them give them reasons why you dont want them... Dont sugar coat it do not be soft with... the first thing a person understands is the truth. Like they said the truth will set you free... regardless of how it comes out it is what it is and they cant run or hide from the truth... Tell them why no point intended why you don't wanna be with them seriously don't keep that any different.

the way for somebody to understand the meaning of no we can not be together is that rejection comes off as being harassed. after you told them after they figured out that you have no intentions of being with them leave... do not sit there and dwell on the fact that they may be hurt or heartbroken... trust me its life we got over rejections they can to..