" Ask Me" Advice Column

Standing out is finding your own individual Style Approach. When you got your own personality it glows, when your self esteem is high people notice you more. If you ever been to a concert and the artist comes out they don't come out standing in once place they come out energetic to get the crowd attention. Some people got that aura they walk in a room and all eyes goes to them. Standing out is always a good thing but if your standing out for the wrong reasons it doesn't help It makes you look either stuck up or cocky and conceited.

sometimes when people got low self esteem they feel like they are the only invisible person standing in the room. And nobody wants to see somebody down not even me, I embrace everybody I met I like to see people happy. You got to look at yourself say that your worth it say that your handsome or beautiful, Recover and use that don't let nothing break you down. the way you look at yourself is the way others will look at you. so you got to have a high esteem for anybody to notice you from the crowd.

once you figured yourself out and learned the inner you you can embrace yourself. Nobody has to embrace your inter being, that light got to shine from your heart. That isnt something Nobody and I mean NOBODY can give you. You love you before anybody can love you. Before anyone to look up too you or look at you and say they wanna be like you. Standing out means so many things, Not many people can stand out from the crowd so when you stand out look at it as a blessing not because of what you look like where you from and who you are because your unique in your own special way and that will lead you future then the rest.