" Ask Me" Advice Column

One of the things that happens when trying to accept someone in your life is not allowing them in. You tend to always remind this person of your past and how they hurt you. Many times when somebody been hurt or betrayed then tend to put the next person thru hell who wanna really love them. You tend to affect them in a way to get back at what your ex had done to you. This is why angry single people end up single because they cant accept a good person who wanna do right by them because they continuing reminding the person of what they ex done to them. You got to love yourself to love somebody else. Other wise don’t get this person hurt because your still hurting. Sometimes they want somebody to treat them that way because that’s all they know that was the way they was once treated.

When somebody wanna treat you right you should never wanna treat them like dirt. Love doesn’t work both ways if I love you why don’t you love me back. That seems to run in and out of a persons thought is why doesn’t this person love them back. Your way to accept them could be starting by showing them you at least love them and your not trying to hurt them because you been hurt.

You can always attempt a relationship by trying to let go of your past mistakes. We all have had been in a relationship here or there that wasn’t right. Mostly wrong ones then right. You can not and shouldn’t put somebody through something that you was put through. That can simply hurt the relationship. You got to understand that you cant always find somebody who honesty care about yours well being. And when you finally find somebody who wanna love you. You should appreciate everything that they had done or doing for you.

Love can be hard to accept but it shouldn’t be misused or treated poorly. I seen way too many relationships crumble because of this one thing a person has done to them that they end up messing up something great. You get some many chances and once you mess them up your end up with nothing and your be alone. Nobody wanna be alone and nobody wanna be unloved so love those who wanna love you back. When you love them they can bring things into your life that you deserved and should earn.  Appreciate those who are in your life because they can easily leave you or be gone.