" Ask Me" Advice Column

Are you wondering why nice men don’t call back, Well its simple and short and very easily to figure out. Many women deal with this issue on why men wont call them back. Was it because you may not fulfilled him or could it be because you wasn’t his type. There is many assumptions to this question that never get solve. We going to over look each question and we going to slowly figure out the reason why this type of thing occurs.

You meet a guy you fall head over heels. He tells you his life story and goals and you tell him the same in return. The date ends and yall exchange numbers he explains to you that maybe he should take you out again and you reply with yes. Weeks go by and you get no response you wonder why hasn’t so and so didn’t take you out again. You call him and he tells you its not the right time he will call you back. OK you get no reply since then. Many times this type of situation happens when he feels intimidated. YES intimidated sometimes women over power men.

She could of said something’s that he may not was ready for like marriage a family, Things like this could completely turn him off. When you turn somebody off it tends to reflect on you because he hasn’t responded. One of the most worst things to do is tell somebody you wanna get married and you wanna have this and that, First off your on a date. That type of commitment is always meant to wait until after months of a dating/relationship. Usually when you tend to over power somebody they feel as if they are tiny like an ant. You completely scare them off, Many reason s for scaring a person off is by forcing yourself on them. You never wanna force nothing on nobody unless yall both can agree. If Johnny didn’t agree to taking those full steps then maybe Jessica shouldn’t had forced it.

Another thing is she says too much. When women speak on her past relationships it tends to put fear and terror into the man she is dating. You telling him every detail of your previous relationship and how much you would hurt the next guy that breaks your heart. Little things like that can completely sense a humans mind and their alert signs will go off and say OK SHES CRAZY. You don’t wanna put fear into him because your ex did something what your ex did doesn’t mean he will.

Do you ever wonder that maybe he just isn’t attracted too you. Maybe you lack some type of qualities that he looks for in a women. Maybe you just don’t reflect on life the way he does.  A relationship is countless of things combined and if you don’t fit what he likes its more likely he going to cheat or completely never committee beyond a dating relationship. Your be on dates more then your hear the words of I LOVE YOU. Many things happens but the worst and the most thing a women shouldn’t do is have sexual encounters with him way too soon. Most men do want sex as quick as possible but it also shows them how serious the women is about herself. It makes women look cheap and easy. She should keep it at a low and give a kiss goodnight. Now its impossible to even get a kiss without wanting to take it to the next level. A man doesn’t see a woman as serious when she gives herself up as quickly being the first few dates.

When getting yourself into a serious relationship if you want somebody to see you as wife material or good enough to bring home to his mother, At least respect yourself. Nobody wants somebody who doesn’t love themselves and have limits you shouldn’t do things that your heart or mind doesn’t tell you to do. Because then your not being your true self. To be love you got to love and loving isn’t forcing or giving it away so quickly.