" Ask Me" Advice Column

Showing somebody a attraction to them is simple. Its well planned and it got to have a moral. There got to be a reason to be feeling this person the way your feeling for them. But you got to understand that this person might not feel the same way for you. You should always start off with communicating. When you communicate you express yourself to them. Take things slow and don’t force nothing that doesn't feel right. When you force things you come off as either fake or shallow. When you come off that way nobody will take anything you say to them serious. It should be a friendship basics before a love connection.

When you go straight into a love relationship or emotions you can sometimes see nothing wrong with this person. You should figure out a persons flaws before jumping into a situation. When you see them as a friend before a lover you get a sense of who they are outside of their inner being but their personality and their meaning. The main mistake people make when liking somebody, they don’t take the time to get to know them. There is nothing wrong with falling in love you wanna do it right. Reasons for doing it wrong is by accepting anything less you because your not putting this person on a high scale and reading them.

Me showing you I like you is not by me telling you how beautiful you are hundred million times either. Me showing you I like you is by me taking the time out to get to know you me figuring who you are as a person for you not what you look like but who your true being is. Take the time to get to know them. Now once you chilled with this person for months on things can take its process and work on its own. You don’t wanna tell them that you like them let them figure that out by they self. One mistake people also make is forcing it, you come off desperate and immature. Let the person figure it out they will more likely approach you about it and take it slow.

Never speed a relationship because when you force it comes out broken. You don’t a broken relationship.  When your in a broken relationship you only see what you wanna see and do what you wanna do. This person has no connection to you at all. The most part they should at least have a chance to learn something to remember. Reminding a person why you like them doesn’t help. You telling me that since I did this or I said that I am so deep in love.

No that’s a problem don’t remind them on why they should like or wanna like you very desperate move despite on how it comes off it will end up with a dead end. that’s a path you don’t wanna take. Showing them is the right way to letting them know you like and then and telling them is the wrong way of showing your attraction for somebody it comes off as cheap and sort term relations with this person.