" Ask Me" Advice Column

Sometimes you think somebody likes you but then in the back of your mind your reminded that its only a friendship. When dealing with relationships with friends that you got feelings for can turn the opposite. Many times when you like a friend or a friend likes you its many different reasons for you to want to be in a personal intimate relationship. There been times that people start off friends only and get lead into more things and different directions.

There is nothing wrong with having a crush or close feelings for a friend. But you should always respect their feelings by not pushing your self on them. If a friend is telling you we are just friends there is no relations and could never be. Then that’s something you need to figure out as ok this can not go to that level. Many times the attempt is there but the actions don’t match that infatuation your having. When somebody got feelings for a friend they tend to go that extra mile and may end up being led down because this person has no interest in them on a relationship level.

Dealing with a friendship with somebody you always felt emotion ways about or you always had a connection but they never catch on. That can be difficult because you think they wanna be personal and you try to get a Romance. I guess expression your feelings to this person can either help you or destroys that relationship. If that ends up being a friendship into a dating relationship then maybe your having luck and your trying to achieve a level of worthy.

You like a friend but they don’t find you worthy enough because they cant take you serious. You either the comedy or you the funny guy that all the ladies enjoy laughing with. That can tend to get old and less attractive, you wanna be able to show this person that you can be funny but you serious when it comes to dating and you would only make it the best experiences in your friendship.

Dating does not mean having sex that could really ruin many relationships with a friend who turns into a friend with a benefit. that’s not the type of direction you wanna take going into a dating situation with a friend you should keep it short and simple never all out and undesirable. Never force the dating thing sometimes it might spark and then fall out it don’t work for every body specially with friends. Try what you can and see where you go from there. If it don’t work out let it go and find somebody you can date without trying to date friends and co workers.