Be A At Home Mom

Being a at home mom can be difficult for women. Issues which causes that is change, when your changing it sometimes bring a lot of things. You got kids you got a husband you have things to do. Working from home may be simple but its very difficult. It can be a way to get a lot of things done by just working from home. There is tons of things you can do to make a profit. Making money from working at home there is many things. But one thing is working online or from your computer.

Yea it seems simple but it also requires time and your effects of putting in. You can work anytime you want too. You can also take up classes online just for something to do. Being a at home mom is something you should take advantage of and not let it take an advantage of you. By that being lazy not wanting to do nothing your supposed to be doing. A lot of times you got a lot of time on your hands. A lot of at home moms start businesses, By starting a business your actually finding hobbies you like. don’t go into business marketing if your not willing to work on your business deals.

You got different ideas go find the resources to learn about the business your looking forward into. You don’t wanna sit around the house doing nothing when you can be making money. Find something you like and go with it, finding other moms who are stay home mothers you can also start a co business. Get online and find the sources you could use for your own ideas and inventions. Sometimes when you’re a home mom you tend to relax on everything you got.

That isn’t going to help or give you any type of knowledge. Take the knowledge that your given and do something with it. There is several jobs not just online but you can do in your home. Like for interest you can get your real estate license or your day care license. These things is that your being in your home and working in the home besides on the computer. Set your goals and go for them. Nothing can guide you or show you how but you. Its in your hands and you can only choose what you wanna do.

Prevent Pregnancy

The main thing you first thing you should do is not ask any type of questions. Why because that is the way to not get scares to not have to face your fear. Nobody wants a horror story so there for what they don’t tell you wont worry about. You cant prevent it if it already happened. Correct how you coming to the situation and handle it deal with what you have to face. There isn’t no other ways but if your not pregnant then these details may help you. 

When your having sex your always should use protection first thing. You cant get upset you cant be flipping out if you wasn’t protecting yourself. Not only you should be scared of being pregnant but having any STD’s you should worry about a lot of things. Now if this your boyfriend or a commitment partner then the best thing is to discuss this with the partner and find out what yall wanna do. You got pregnant you got a few options. You can give the baby away or get an abortion. So there is many ways to getting rid of the problem your facing. Now if your young and under 18 you need to speak to your parents. Preventing it and hiding it will only make the situation worst. Seek a professional who can assist you on different type of decisions you can make.

You always wanna be cautious about certain diseases and other ways of things through other acts. Preventing a pregnancy can be difficult in many ways. Not only causing emotional stress but sometimes depression. The  best ways of not getting pregnant is using pills. Birth control is one of the best ways for a women to not deal with pregnancy.  Know that the first 7 days your be fully protected but take the pill properly and regularly then it should be pretty effective. Some birth control pills take up to 3 months to be 99 percent effective. But wont prevent it at all always use condoms always.

Remember 4 things
1. Don't worry, Don't feel ashamed
2. Don't take any tensions
3. Do not delay in taking the pill
4. After 7-8 days take home based pregnancy test

What are some general tips and guidelines for those who
(1) are having full on sex or - use protection ALWAYS
(2) younger and mostly engage in non-penetrative activities and other kinds of sex play? - Use protection, people seem to focus only on pregnancy and not STD's

Relationship Vs. Friendship

Sometimes you think somebody likes you but then in the back of your mind your reminded that its only a friendship. When dealing with relationships with friends that you got feelings for can turn the opposite. Many times when you like a friend or a friend likes you its many different reasons for you to want to be in a personal intimate relationship. There been times that people start off friends only and get lead into more things and different directions.

There is nothing wrong with having a crush or close feelings for a friend. But you should always respect their feelings by not pushing your self on them. If a friend is telling you we are just friends there is no relations and could never be. Then that’s something you need to figure out as ok this can not go to that level. Many times the attempt is there but the actions don’t match that infatuation your having. When somebody got feelings for a friend they tend to go that extra mile and may end up being led down because this person has no interest in them on a relationship level.

Dealing with a friendship with somebody you always felt emotion ways about or you always had a connection but they never catch on. That can be difficult because you think they wanna be personal and you try to get a Romance. I guess expression your feelings to this person can either help you or destroys that relationship. If that ends up being a friendship into a dating relationship then maybe your having luck and your trying to achieve a level of worthy.

You like a friend but they don’t find you worthy enough because they cant take you serious. You either the comedy or you the funny guy that all the ladies enjoy laughing with. That can tend to get old and less attractive, you wanna be able to show this person that you can be funny but you serious when it comes to dating and you would only make it the best experiences in your friendship.

Dating does not mean having sex that could really ruin many relationships with a friend who turns into a friend with a benefit. that’s not the type of direction you wanna take going into a dating situation with a friend you should keep it short and simple never all out and undesirable. Never force the dating thing sometimes it might spark and then fall out it don’t work for every body specially with friends. Try what you can and see where you go from there. If it don’t work out let it go and find somebody you can date without trying to date friends and co workers.

Divorce And Dealing With Children

We all know that divorce can be ugly but also can infect the children. When handling a divorce everything can get involved and the most important thing is that the children have to deal with the after math. You cant stop the process but yall fighting and fussing in front of the children is only going to traumatize them. That’s not a healthy way of raising your children in ugly disputes.

The main reason for children having depression and problems growing in a divorce situation is that there is no right or wrong. When the children are involved they don’t deserve to be around that type of environment because it affects them the most. Children are a lot smarter then we think they are. A lot of time we forget that children are the reason for many disputes to be settled. You got to work together for the kids regardless. That is a must, work it out figure out how you going to be a parent and raise your child in a divorce situation and a most safe and healthy upbringing.

Several reasons that children get involved could result in child’s behavioral situations and they future relationships. This could ruin many bridges in a Child's life before its even noticeable. This is the time to get together and explain to them that the two of all are no longer together but will always be parents and raise them and would never do other wise. You need to explain to them that regardless of the divorce that yall will always be apart of their life’s and sometimes it wont be good times but yall wont ever give up on them.

Make the most out of what you got and do what’s right for them, when raising children you wanna look out for their best interest and having a divorce and having them witness the issues and causing only drama in their mind as a way to compromise with life. Be thoughtful of the child’s sake and not what your going through emotionally or dramatically. It shouldn’t be the main goal to get back at each other but to raise your children in a better way of understanding a divorce and not thinking it’s a bad thing but a disagreement.

Teach them that you will always love the other parent but yall cant get along. And that that’s the way parents deal with things when they no longer are involved together. You need to teach them at a early age so when they get older they have a understanding of what a real divorce means instead of the wrongful way of people explaining what it means.

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Do You Love Somebody But They Don’t Feel The Same Way

Are you feeling like your in a relationship and the same results you putting in you aint getting out. Love isnt a one way street. Are you trying work things out and met this person half way and they aint traveling the same miles for you. Well sometimes you end up in a bump in the relationship which can cause chaos. Sometimes we want the best and we get into relationships that turn sour. That could ruin many bridges but you over coming it climbing over the mountains of a troubled relationship.

This isn’t a choice you wanna make you need to let this go. Staying and holding on is only going to hurt you because this person doesn’t feel the way you feel. You attempting to go the extra distance and your doing all this for somebody who just clearly don’t accept or love you back. If love doesn’t love you back you need to realize that somebody is good enough to love you the way you should be loved. Its not who we love its who loves us back. If this is person confess to you that they don’t love you, you need to love yourself to know that this isn’t going to work out. Yes moving on is going to be hard moving on is one of the difficult stages in a persons life.

Because you got to relearn the basics in life in a new relationship. Yea there will be more roads you go down that will have bumps and have cracks and dead ends but it’s the point that your traveling your journey. Its about your life and sometimes life don’t deal the cards you bet. Its just how to figure out what steps to take from there. But the first advice you honesty need is to leave before you can do anything.

Get yourself of out of that situation and move on. After you move on it’s a new journey you can go through you can rewrite your story. I mean once you realize its not meant for you to be in and you got on other choice but to pick up the pieces and rebuild your castle. Realize that your strong with this person or without them. Your self esteem will go down and you will feel like some day’s you cant make it. But the point of moving on is to recover.

You got to recover from your mistakes from your wrong choices it’s the forgiveness that you going to have to deal with next. Forgive that person its hard to forgive them after hurting you but you got to forgive them so you can move on. If you don’t forgive them you going to be reminded of this person and they going to continue their life and not ever give any type of feelings towards your heartache. To be loved you got to love yourself. And once you love yourself everything else will happen.

Dating Tips 101

Dating tips don’t come off easy, Sometimes you got the tips but don’t know how to perform the act. It comes off cheesy and you look cheap in many ways. Well sometimes you don’t and shouldn’t feel that way. Looking at unprofessional dating tips can also make you look silly because they aren’t giving you the in guide to doing these hints and tips and things they explain. Well ima give you some good advice you can now either take it and use it or completely ignore it. That’s on you im just going to put my input on how things should go as in dating tips 101.

First off when your on a date you should always introduce yourself to the girls/guys parents. To show that you was raised better then that. Many times you go on a date the person blows the horn and you wait outside well that isn’t a good example of manners and it’s a short way of communicating with your date. You should always come off as worthy somebody who is trust worthy and will have nothing but respect for the person they taking out. Greet with a hello and your name. You should never start off saying is so and so there NO.  that shows that you don’t acknowledge the person who answered the door. You take the time and you introduce yourself.

On your first date DO NOT kiss him/her right away NO never do that because that comes off as desperate. One thing you shouldn’t do is go in when your leaving your date or dropping them off. (This is strictly for the men only this part). Never kiss her on the first date. In movies your see that your hear well did you get a kiss. NO don’t go for a kiss but at least go for the question of taking her out again. Now Ladies when he asks you on another date make sure you approve ahead of time. Never say yes to anything that you wont be committed too that comes off as stuck up and be seen as a way of a turn down point.

When your on your date never ask short ended questions and give short term answers. That’s a big mistake you don’t want to look shy or nervous it shows more then you notice. You should at least flirt with the person to come off as able to do things. Most of the time when your taking to somebody and you say short and useless things it makes you look simple minded. Simple minded people don’t get far when it comes to dating because they don’t know how to communicate. When your Communicating you should always at least talk with some type of knowledge and some type of maturity.

 When I met somebody the first time I don’t wanna hear about yourself. NEVER SPEND THE WHOLE TIME SPEAKING ABOUT YOUR SELF. That can turn somebody off and it comes off as selfish and it shows that you do not wanna get to know the other person. When dating you should always show interest in getting to know a person instead of spending time on yourself. One thing that you can get a habit of doing is extracting them by making them feel as if they need to be on your level. You shouldn’t have to force a conversation it could come naturally.

Now Usually the girls are shy on dates so if the guy is shy also shell just feel awkward try communicating on things the person likes. If she likes music talk about music if she likes movies talk about ect. It should be a stable conversation and it shouldn’t be a drawn out conversation. Always be a gentlemen and females always be a lady. I'm guessing that finding out somebody’s personality is quickly noticeable. So time is always important always do right timing make sure it’s a special moment or worth remembering.

Another thing when dating is that you wanna be confident girls like confidence in guys, And guys like girls who can have some type of confidence in them as well. Ask them about themselves and input some things about yourself that are on similarities. It is always good to find similarities in people.

There is many tips on dating but these are the  basics and with basics you don’t so much just keep it to the regular. Hopefully your dates go well and you end up a match and some how gain a relationship out of it. Good luck!!!